Cum Sluts Guide on How To Give a Hand Job

Cum Sluts Guide on How To Give a Hand Job

Penises are not the best looking things in the world and let's be honest, sometimes the last thing you want to do is to put that ugly thing into your mouth. If it's your first time getting intimate with a new partner, maybe you want to wait to ensure that he is free of diseases before putting it in your mouth. Moreover, when it gets really hot and sweaty, feeling of putting something sticky, smelly and ugly into your mouth is just plain gross. Learning how to give a great hand job is perfect for occasions like this. If you are going for a one night stand, this may also be a great way to avoid sexually transmitted diseases. If you are so good at hand jobs to the point where you can make it better than oral sex, you may be able to escape those tricky situations. In this article, we will show you how to give a hand job from start to finish.

Why Hand Jobs Are Sometimes Better Than Blow Jobs

Many women believe that men will not get the same satisfaction while getting a great hand job as opposed to getting blow jobs. But this is false. You may think that hand jobs are not as good because men can do it by themselves. But for men, getting their private parts touched by their partner other than themselves is enough to get them stimulated more than anything. For many men, it doesn't even have to be a great technique for them to get excited. The simple fact that their penises are getting touched by their partner other than themselves is enough to get them very aroused.

Another great thing about being able to give your men a great hand job is the fact that you can dominate and be in total control. If you are a control freak, this is a great way to take the lead. Some men especially in higher positions of power sometimes like to be controlled in bed and there is no better way to achieve their fantasy than a great hand job.

First Let's Learn About Penis

First thing you need to do in order to be good at hand jobs is to learn about the anatomy of penis. This will establish a basis for you to know what different parts of a man's penis is sensitive and learning to trigger those areas will ensure that your partner will have a time of his life. 

We are going to separate penis into two categories. 1) circumcised 2) uncircumcised. Circumcised means the foreskin has been cut off when the man was just born or some time after. Uncircumcised means foreskin is still intact and may remind you of an elephant trunk. They are both the same with just different outlook. Most Americans are familiar with circumcised penises but there are many men whose parents chose not to cut their foreskin off when they were born and men choosing not to cut it thereafter. They both function the same even though hand job may be easier with uncircumcised men because of foreskin. 

To find the sensitive areas for uncircumcised men, just pull back the foreskin back and it will reveal his head. When it is fully erect, foreskin usually pulls back by itself. Many people say people who are uncircumcised have more sensitive areas so they can enjoy oral sex more. 

Focusing on the Head

So the first thing that you want to focus on is the head. On top of the head, if you look closely, every man has an opening which is where semen and pee comes out. Similar to women's clitoris, this opening is very sensitive and men get excited if you touch that area.

Another spot that is very sensitive is the frenulum. This is the underside of the penis where the head and skin connects. It's like a connective muscle and tissue. This is another area which many women are not aware of. So focus on these two areas and you will surely make your men excited in no time.

Caressing and Pumping the Shaft

Now the shaft. The entire shaft from the bottom to the top is very sensitive area for men. If you use your hand to gently caress it, it will turn any guy on. You can massage in constant down motion or up motion in the with his clothes on and this will excite him to get ready for a full erection. Next, you can hold the shaft when it is fully erect and pump gently up and down to get him to cum.

Massaging the Balls and the Perineum

Erection can be triggered by many areas in a man's private area. One of them being testicles. If you can gently massage the testicles or rub it with or without clothes, this will be another way to trigger his erection. You can make circular motion with your hands or grab them gently. As long as you don't grab them so hard that it may pop, men will enjoy every minute of it.

Another place to take note is the man's perineum. This is the location between men's testicles and anus. Massing this area will make your man moan as this is another sensitive part that is often overlooked. This area is full of glands and it will trigger your man to go crazy. He will be begging you for more if you know how to work this area.

Using Two Hands Instead of One

Amateurs use one hand but professionals who really know how to make men excited knows both hands can be utilized. Using the other hand covers more area and triggers more glands. You can hold the testicles or massage them while using your other hand to gently stroke or rub the head of the penis. Another way you can use both hands is to use one to stroke and the other to excite the perineum. This particular technique will make men literally go CRAZY!

The Secret is to Replicate the Vagina with Your Hands

During sexual intercourse, when penis is inserted into vagina, the pressure around the penis is what makes men get off. Of course the texture and warmth is another factor because penis gets sensitive when it touches wet surfaces of women's vagina while wrapping it around with warm temperature. So the best thing you can do is to replicate this feeling with your hands. Make a circular hand sign that looks like a vagina and imagine it being inserted as if it is the real thing. You can control the pressure by making your hand sign smaller as your man starts to get really excited. If it is too much, you can loosen it again to control the tempo however you want. When it's too much, men will usually squeal and let you know to slow down. And don't worry because this is actually a good thing. It usually means that they want to enjoy it more before ejaculating. 

Get Ready For Ejaculation

Men will start to breathe faster and moan when they are close to cumming. This means that whatever you are doing is clearly working. So at this point, you don't need to tease, but rather go for the kill. You can jerk him off with harder motions and pressurize your hands a little bit more to give it more squeeze. Most important thing to remember here is when your man is about to cum, DO NOT STOP. If anything go harder and crazier until the climax. He may give your verbal cues and ask you to either not stop or go harder or faster. This is a really good sign. So listen to your partner and give it to him just the way he wants it. Listening to this communication is key so make sure to finish right.

He Came. So What Now?

Get ready to make a mess. If you are near a couch or bed that you really don't want to get dirty, you have to either swallow his cum or do it so that his semen won't spread everywhere around. Sometimes men ejaculate couple feet if he is healthy so make sure that you cover all areas around and expect it to get messy. Another way is to make him cum on your body. If you are wearing clothes and don't want it to stain, (because semen usually stains clothes) take your clothes off and this will enhance his experience even more. Some women like to cover the tip of the head with cloth or towel. This may work but some semen may leak out from the side. If this is the method you are going to use, make sure you angle the towel so that it covers the entire surface around your partner's private area. Get ready to get messy. If you actually like the feeling of having cum on your body, you can sensually rub it on you and some men really go off by seeing this. 

Conclusion

Now that we have explained how to give a great hand job in detail, we hope you are now able to use the techniques above if you are getting intimate with a new person for the first time and you are not sure about his health status or if you just don't feel like giving oral sex or having sexual intercourse. Important thing to remember here is that all men are different and they will have areas that are more sensitive than others and this varies for each person. Trick is to find the sweet spot for man you are getting intimate with and communicate as best you can to see what gets the best reaction from him. This will give him the best time and you will be worshiped like the queen that you are.

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